Family life contains both positive and negative aspects. One of the points that women don't like is the lack of attention from the husband. There are several reasons for this.
Employment and leisure
The husband is the main earner of money in the family. This can take him most of his time. Accordingly, earnings are his main goal. In an effort to fulfill it, a man can devote almost all of his time to this. The main thing for him is a positive result.
As a consequence of the large expenditure of energy at work, a man, when he comes home, needs rest. In this case, the house for him becomes a place where you can rest and relax, not only physically, but also psychologically. He simply has no energy left for household chores. When making claims to him about inattention, the man gets annoyed. He does not understand why his wife is unhappy, as he is making every effort to provide for her and the children. The way out can be a constructive dialogue, for which it is necessary to choose the right time. Perhaps it would be better to do this on weekends.
Loss of interest
One of the reasons a husband does not pay enough attention to his wife is a loss of interest in her as a woman. This can happen even at the very beginning of life together. This is justified by the fact that the man has achieved the woman and relaxed. Completing the Conquest program worked for him. At the same time, he is absolutely sure that attention should be paid to a woman only in the process of courtship.
With a long family life, a man may stop being interested in his wife. This happens because over time they get used to each other so much that they stop perceiving their spouse as a sexual object. As a result, the need to show attention is lost.
When the wife stops taking care of herself, the husband also stops paying attention to her. An unkempt appearance, a plump figure, unkempt clothes are unlikely to attract the attention of a man. All this, on the contrary, will contribute to the search for new sensations on the side.
Behavior
Pay attention to your own family behavior. If you are constantly nervous, raise your voice and voice your claims, your husband will avoid communicating with you. The reason for this is that he will try to protect himself from unnerving moments. Find a way to correct your behavior, be able to relax. So you will not only put your nerves in order, but also help your husband find rest in the family.
If it is impossible to resolve relationship problems, contact a specialist. The family psychologist will help to find the reasons for the misunderstanding of the spouses, and will also give the necessary consultations to improve the psychological microclimate in the family.
