In marriage, there are periods when the spouses do not behave in the best way. If you often quarrel, behave selfishly, criticize each other unnecessarily, you need to urgently change something.
We offer you a weekly package of urgent measures that will help return love and sensitivity to family relationships. And, as usual, you will have to start with yourself …
Monday
- Replace all criticisms with compliments. If you feel like saying, "You are so lazy!", Count to 10, and then say something nice, for example: "This shirt suits you very much" or "Thank you for making me tea."
- Thank your spouse for anything you do, even if you take out the trash or buy food. Starting on Monday, do this every day for at least a week.
- Do not deny your husband affection and intimacy all week.
Tuesday
- Call him at work to say, "I missed you and wanted to hear your voice." Ask how you are doing. Do not ask for anything or complain, no boring during the whole week to improve relationships!
- Dress nicely at home all week. Let the husband, coming home, see an attractive woman, and not a tired, unkempt aunt.
Wednesday
- Establish a tradition of kissing your husband when meeting and parting.
- Use the Law of First Impression. When your husband comes home from work, meet him with a smile, kiss and … leave him alone. Do not ask questions, do not give instructions from the doorway: "Have you paid the bills?", "Help your son with math!" etc. Let him get a pleasant experience from the meeting and leave him alone for at least half an hour.
- Massage your husband's back in the evening.
Thursday
- Ask how your day went. Listen to your man. Do not interrupt, do not insert into his story: "And I generally …". Look into the eyes more often, try to understand and feel what he "breathes" with. Provide moral support, words of encouragement and admiration.
- When addressing your husband, use the epithets dear, beloved, dear all week.
Friday
- Surprise your husband: do what he doesn't expect from you. Present what he has dreamed of for a long time, invite him to invite friends to a bachelor party, and go visit a friend, etc.
- Buy provocative lingerie and showcase in the evening.
Saturday
- For no reason, arrange lunch or dinner with dishes your husband likes.
- Together with your husband, make up a spring-summer menu: discuss what dishes he would like to see on the table, what products to try. Head to the store and start experimenting.
Sunday
- Take your husband on a romantic trip. You don't have to go far. Take a walk in "your" places, go to a park or a cafe.
- Being nice to your husband is easy for an hour, but a week or more is harder. But your efforts will surely bring success. And if this behavior becomes the norm for you, then your relationship with your husband can only be envied.
