Of the four types of temperament, the choleric is the brightest, most passionate and hot-tempered. He is also characterized by self-confidence, domineering speech, active gesticulation, and frequent mood swings. To win his attention and respect, it is necessary to choose certain tactics of behavior.
Instructions
Step 1
During a friendly or business conversation, speak loudly and clearly enough. Choleric people dislike those who mumble and can offend them with rude remarks. If your speech is slurred and quiet, work on yourself, do voice exercises, for example, in your free minute, repeat tongue twisters or sing without swallowing words. A well-delivered speech will help not only find a common language with the choleric person, but also gain self-confidence.
Step 2
People of a bright temperament are more prone to narcissism. They strive to be in the spotlight, and also do not miss a single compliment. Do not flatter choleric people, but say sincere praise or just gratitude boldly, openly and honestly.
Step 3
They absolutely cannot stand criticism and sometimes they can even take a harmless joke at their own expense. If you are not satisfied with something, try to present clear and compelling reasons. Do not raise your tone - only a choleric person can shout down a choleric person. Never blame him for all the mistakes, otherwise, instead of a constructive conversation, a scandal with breaking dishes will come out. Select only one controversial issue per conversation. Start with praise and end with gratitude for the constructive dialogue.
Step 4
Do not be slow and do not demand routine duties from him. It is better to once again invite the choleric person to the theater or to a concert, followed by a discussion. People of this type of temperament are very fond of creativity. When traveling together, do not stop him if he wishes to climb a mountain boulder or go on a safari. But stay close: if a choleric person encounters difficulties, you have to take some action while he is indignant and waving his arms.
Step 5
Choleric is a leader who is irreplaceable in business, but very categorical in family life. He does not distinguish between business and family space poorly, he loves to dispose of. If something does not suit him, ask him to show you how best to do this or that: drive a car, cut a salad, change a baby's clothes, play with a cat, kiss, etc. Being prone to vanity, the choleric will quickly enter the taste, because you have just recognized its originality and zest.
