There has been a myth for quite some time that the power of passion determines whether young people can marry or not. In other words, the beginning of a happy family life depends on the mad passion of the young. But whether this statement is true or not is worth checking.
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Step 1
If young people think that the more they will feel passion for each other, the stronger their family will be, they are deeply mistaken. Passion is an incoming and outgoing feeling that appears and disappears in an instant. If a relationship begins with passion, it very rarely comes to creating a full-fledged happy family. The ardor and passion boil over, and sometimes in the future, the former lover loses all desire to be with this or that person. And there is no explanation for this phenomenon.
Step 2
In Christianity, passion is the inability to control your feelings and desires. Under the influence of passion, a person can commit rash actions that can end sadly. Psychologists say that insane passion is the first sign of an unhealthy relationship. This is not to say that there should be no passion between husband and wife. Passion should be, because it is one of the components of love. However, care must be taken to ensure that passion does not become the foundation and foundation of marriage. Otherwise, just as hastily, the relationship will be built and destroyed. Despite the fact that there is always passion in love, the opposite is impossible to make. Lust can exist on its own, without any other warm feelings. Feeling passion for a person, it is impossible to be sure of your love for him.
Step 3
The very definition of this feeling says that passion is a disease that suddenly rises in huge waves and bursts and just as suddenly falls and disappears. Relationships built only on passion will not be calm and balanced. A couple experiencing a sense of insane desire for each other will constantly experience conflicts and quarrels based on jealousy and mutual claims. In the future, such relationships, most often, end in scandals and ruptures. If you want to build a strong family, once and for all, don't rely on passion. The strongest relationships are built on friendship, which eventually develops into love. After all, a loved one is not an object of worship and adoration, but a friend whom you love with all your heart and with whom you want to live the rest of your life!
