Recently, you began to notice that your relationship with your loved one went wrong. You, as they say, lose it. But he is very dear to you. So what should be done to stop it?
Instructions
Step 1
If a young man leaves you, do not try to restrain him by any means. Maybe this is not your half at all. And you will spend your energy and time keeping him near you. And thereby miss out on your real happiness. Please note that everyone has the right to choose.
Step 2
If a young man hesitates between you and his new partner, then it is better not to give him ultimatums and claims. It is necessary as early as possible to distract him from the thought that he is making the right choice, leaving you for her.
Step 3
Do not enter into any races and showdown with his new hobby. Perhaps this girl is only a temporary hobby, and your showdown will significantly lower your self-esteem.
Step 4
Do not blame your beloved for anything. These unnecessary arguments and accusations will only aggravate the situation and he may quickly decide to leave you.
Step 5
Do not in any way seek support from your mutual acquaintances. If you start complaining to them, they will definitely tell him and that's it - then you can not count on restoring relations.
Step 6
Don't treat him like a child. For this, he has a mother who already takes care of him. Don't make yourself a little helpless girl either. Try to stand up for yourself in difficult life situations. Solve difficult issues on your own.
Step 7
Do not follow him or be jealous. Don't check his pockets, don't dig in his phone. This is humiliating for both. Don't put your career ahead of your relationship with your loved one. Make sure the apartment is tidy and learn to cook. The old truth that the way to a man's heart lies through the stomach has not yet been canceled.
Step 8
Give him a break from communicating with you. Do not forbid him to occasionally meet with friends, work out in the gym, or get involved in any hobbies. Try to admire his athletic or other achievements.
Step 9
Be interested, but not intrusive, in his affairs at work, talk about your working day. Sometimes ask for advice in solving a difficult life issue.
Step 10
Take his criticism normally, no offense. Try to listen to his fair comments. But at the same time, defend your beliefs if you are sure of them. By following at least partially these tips, you can stop your loved one and return everything to its original place.
