It can be quite difficult for young inexperienced men to achieve reciprocity from a girl they like. They do not know how to behave, they are in a hurry or, on the contrary, they are afraid to take the initiative.
Instructions
Step 1
Take your time if you want the girl to fall in love with you. Give her time to figure out if the relationship is important to her. Do not insist on a declaration of love, do not seek an answer to the question "do you love or not." Let the girl understand that you respect her opinion, and if she is not ready to give an answer yet, you will not rush her.
Step 2
Give the girl freedom. Don't control her every step. Make her feel like you trust her. A decent girl will not cheat and will be imbued with sympathy for a person who has shown her complete confidence.
Step 3
Be independent. Girls are attracted to confident men. Always support the girl, but don't force her on. Be careful, but don't suck up. Be open and friendly, without fawning. This behavior will defeat even the first beauty.
Step 4
Show your girl attentions. Help take off your coat, get out of the car, carry heavy bags. Take an interest in how things are at work and at home. Seeing a genuine interest in her life, the girl will begin to experience warmer feelings.
Step 5
Meet the girl's friends and try to charm them. Be fun and open-minded. Joke and chat, but highlight only your beloved. Compliment her, and praise her friends afterward, when you are alone. It is very important for a girl to know that you approve of her environment.
Step 6
If you want to test the girl's feelings - disappear for a while. For example, if a nightly conversation has become a ritual for you, deprive it. If the girl started to worry, she is looking for you, calls, sends SMS - everything is in order, she is interested in your relationship and has almost fallen in love. Don't miss the moment to take your connection to the next level. If neither this evening nor the next day there are no attempts to find out where you have disappeared - most likely, you started dating the wrong person, and the girl does not value you. Leave empty attempts and go in search of your destiny.