We met a man, he likes it. Unusual, affable, with an infectious laugh and a sweet smile. But something is not right. He's kind of strange. It is not clear what is on his mind. Maybe he has serious intentions. Or is he just kidding?
Instructions
Step 1
Is he polite? Does it open the door for you, letting you go ahead? Politeness is one of the essential traits of a caring man. If he is rude to you, then this is a clear sign that he is not in the mood for a long-term relationship: after all, if he is rude, then he does not want to make a positive impression on you. Draw your own conclusions, how he treats you in this case.
Step 2
See how he reacts to your requests, especially if these requests are related to his behavior or habits: for example, you do not like his habit of spitting on the asphalt. If you ask him not to do this, does he yield or continues to persist? Be careful, because if he does not want to give in to you even in such trifles (and it is quite logical and understandable that you are asking him to correct him), he is unlikely to listen to you later when you speak out on a more important issue.
Step 3
See if he's honest. Does he demand of himself the same as he demands of you? If he continues to smoke, like a steam locomotive, but at the same time requires you to quit smoking without fail, this is a serious sign. You shouldn't expect consistency from such a person, and isn't consistency one of the cornerstones of a successful relationship? How, then, can you determine what is on this person's mind?
Step 4
However, be careful with anything to do with work or study. For most young people, careers are very important now, many are greedy for making money. If he works and sees you a little, do not rush to shout at all angles that he does not love you and is more attached to his work. This is not at all an indicator that he does not want to see you. Maybe he earns money to live comfortably with you later, or is he saving up for a chic gift for you?
Step 5
However, first of all, it is necessary to rely on common sense and not throw tantrums with or without. So you will only scare the young man away without really knowing what his intentions were. Many men are even more mysterious than women, and their logic is as difficult to interpret as women's. Therefore, think with your head and do not let your emotions go off scale. And first decide what hopes you yourself are pinning on a young man.
