Close people get to you as they are and you put up with their shortcomings and habits. Both parents and children are taken for granted. Only by choosing a life partner, people begin to set requirements and adjust their loved ones to certain criteria. However, you need to be able to accept your partner as well as other people dear to you.
Instructions
Step 1
Don't try to remake your husband. At the beginning of the relationship, absolutely everything suited you, since you came to such a serious decision as marriage. But habit and everyday life have made your feelings more mundane and you, in search of new emotions, begin to look for flaws in a loved one. Think about it, if your husband changes, will he be the one you love so much? If the situation in the family becomes completely unbearable, then determine for yourself the most important rules of conduct that your spouse should adhere to. But express your requests gently in a frank conversation so that the man can share his wishes too. You will see, he also has something to say.
Step 2
Build your life together on trust. You don't have to constantly check your husband's phone and email. Such espionage will force your man to carefully hide those aspects of his life that do not concern you. Understand that a person needs freedom, albeit conditional, but freedom. Let him go to football with friends or go fishing. Do not think that he will immediately go to other women. Believe me, men are interested in a lot of things besides the opposite sex.
Step 3
Try to find common interests. No amount of love will save a relationship if people have nothing to discuss. A man should be interested in you. You should attract him not only as a beautiful and sexy woman, but also as an interlocutor. If you don't want him to spend too much time with friends, then you need to become a worthy alternative to them. Pay attention to what your husband likes. And if you don't want to go to the gym with him, then at least ask how the workout went. It is important for a man to have a person next to him with whom he can discuss the most important things.
Step 4
Try to fight the monotony in your life. Change yourself and change your way of life. Let a man, when he comes home from work, not know what awaits him for dinner. Surprise with your behavior, novelty in sex and your own appearance. All this will help keep you in love as long as possible. The constant acuity of feelings will make you happy and your marriage strong.
