There always comes a moment in the life of any girl when problems begin in personal matters. When you begin to notice that your partner has become less sensitive to you, without that delight and that tenderness that you had before. When such a period of relations comes, the girl, willy-nilly, begins to wonder whether her young man has lost interest in her and what to do next to interest him again. In search of a solution to this problem, girls most often seek advice on forums and from friends, but there are several basic indicators by which you can determine whether your partner has cooled or not.
Instructions
Step 1
Take a closer look at how his behavior has changed, what has become wrong. What exactly are the changes manifested in: look, words, actions, demeanor, facial expressions. In what situation, how does his behavior change. To what and how he reacts.
Step 2
Rate how far he has moved away from you. What has remained the same, how he talks to you, what is wrong in intonation and where his gaze is most often directed at the moment of conversation. All this will help you better assess the situation, understand what is wrong and how to act in the future.
Step 3
Analyze the main reasons for his unusual behavior, try to figure out what was the reason that caused such unusual behavior of your partner. Maybe he just got used to you and the "grinding" period began? Or maybe you are just tired of each other? Or it is possible that your behavior somehow repels him, forcing yourself to behave that way.
Step 4
Understand yourself. Analyze your behavior, try to determine exactly how your behavior has changed, try to identify those moments in which you yourself remove your partner, or try to control him very much. Change your line of behavior, see things easier. If after that your partner does not change in any way.
Step 5
Talk frankly with him, find out exactly what the problems are, what has become of your relationship and what is going on in his soul. If your young man makes contact, it means that he also noticed the changes and wants to return everything back. If he is simply surprised and does not want to solve the problem in any way, it means that your relationship has become obsolete, it's time to put an end to it. In the case when the partner is trying to solve the problem by mutual forces, do not forget that the relationship is a pair game in which the team consists of two people.
