People go to dating sites to find a soul mate. If the goal is achieved, it would be time to forget the road to such virtual sites. But some guys still sit on them for different reasons.
Sometimes men are already starting a relationship, but at the same time they do not abandon dating sites, continuing to sit on them. Women cannot be satisfied with this situation. But before you blame your partner for anything, you can try to understand the possible reasons for this behavior.
Polygamous male
Experts in male psychology claim that all representatives of the stronger sex are polygamous by nature. This means that to satisfy their sexual needs, one woman is not enough for them, no matter how much they love her. Scientists have repeatedly tried to find scientific confirmation of this fact, drawing an analogy with animals. In the wild, all males are polygamous. Some men are happy to make this argument as an excuse for their infidelity. Comparing people and animals is not entirely correct. A person has a developed sense of responsibility and duty. At the same time, many men really feel the need to be with several women at the same time. There is nothing you can do about this feature. One girl is not enough for them. Even having met the one that fits all the requirements, they continue to sit on dating sites, flirt on the side. Trying to re-educate such a man at the beginning of a relationship is useless. You shouldn't throw up scandals for him. He will still go to dating sites to look at girls, to chat. It will take time to change the situation. For some, it goes away with age.
Craves attention
Men are very conceited. They are pleased with the attention. When in real life this is not enough, they go to the virtual plane, sit on dating sites. There is a much better chance of getting praise. Such men collect comments and likes, which makes them believe in their own irresistibility. There is only one way out of this situation - to praise your chosen one more often so that he does not want to get all this on the side.
Hooked on dating sites
For many people, dating sites are already a way of life, a habit. Such virtual sites are very addictive, a kind of addiction appears. And the binding may not be just to dating sites, but to a computer, to a leisurely pastime on the network. It doesn't matter where to while away the evenings or lunch breaks. By visiting well-known sites, you can relax, unwind, look at pictures of beautiful girls. In such a situation, it is important not to require a man to immediately stop visiting these sites, especially if he spent a lot of time there before the start of the relationship. It is better to quietly offer him alternative options, to interest him in something. These can be some kind of forums, groups on social networks that are not related to dating. In the end, it's better to let him sometimes play computer games than flirt with girls.
Not satisfied with the relationship
Even when the relationship can already be considered established, this does not mean that both are satisfied with each other. Men tend to choose. Some are always on the lookout. And the fascination with dating sites is one of the proofs. If a guy comes to them not out of habit, but for new communication, actively writes and responds to unfamiliar girls, the choice has not yet been made. Deep down, he understands that he has not found the best option, so he continues to search for the ideal. It's hard to come to terms with this. In such cases, it is better to act dramatically. Sometimes a good shake makes it clear how much a person is missing, how dear he is. Perhaps the man will understand that he has already found one and only one, and further searches are useless.
Just communicates
Men sit on dating sites not only for the purpose of finding a constant companion, but also for the purpose of communication. Sometimes it happens. Of course, this may seem strange, but in fact, the regulars of such sites can no longer refuse them. There remained penpals who have already become like family. You can chat with them on various topics. It doesn't have to be flirting. If a man explains his behavior in this way, you should ask him to visit sites less often. Over time, interest will disappear. And old friends are likely to find their soul mate. It is unlikely that their new chosen ones will like this format of communication.
