For a woman, the best confirmation of the reliability and strength of a marriage is the birth of a child. But what if a man does not support the conversation about joint children? And the woman answers all questions evasively, that she is not ready yet or refers to material difficulties. A woman is faced with a choice: to submit to a man and wait with the birth of a child or try to achieve her goal by any means.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, let's try to figure out what is the reason for your companion's unwillingness to have a child. It can be a fear of drastic life changes. It is clear that the birth of a child will forever change the life of parents, introduce into it the need to take care of a defenseless person, show responsibility, and deprive some of their freedom. A man at any age at heart is himself a child and it is difficult for him to share attention to himself with someone else. He is frightened by the fact that the woman will no longer belong only to him. Starting from the moment the child is born, a real man will have to become the head of the family with all the ensuing consequences.
Step 2
A smart woman will not put pressure on her beloved, using aggressive methods or lengthy persuasion. This can only lead to the fact that the man will try by all means to avoid talking about the child. Similarly, threats expressed in the form of an ultimatum will not lead to the desired effect. The task of a woman is to lead a man to the idea that he himself wants a child. A confidential, calm conversation about a joint future should convince him that a woman has enough love for both her husband and children. Of course, such a conversation alone will not be enough, but there is no need to force events.
Step 3
Gradually, the man will understand that the child will not only not destroy, but on the contrary will strengthen the family. Use the example of family friends, visit them. But only if the couple is doing well, and do not delay the visit for the first time. It is good if the child's father talks to your companion and tells him by his example how his life changed with the appearance of the baby. But he will tell not only about the difficulties, but also about the joys of a full-fledged family.
