If quarrels and conflicts are frequent in your marriage, then this can have a very negative effect on the relationship with your husband and even cause divorce. But there is a way to change the situation - every time another disagreement is coming, try to convince your husband that the truth is on your side. The main thing is that the methods and method of persuasion do not hurt his feelings, then everything will be in order.
Necessary
- Patience
- The gift of persuasion
- Ability to think strategically
- Child support
- Forgiving heart
Instructions
Step 1
Be persistent to convince your husband. But at the same time, try not to offend his feelings and self-esteem. Remember that you are not arguing to quarrel, but because you have a great point of view. Be gentle in your beliefs.
Step 2
You can try using ancient Chinese military equipment - pretend that you agree with everything your husband says, admit that you were wrong, take upon yourself all the sins of humanity, and there is a chance that your husband will back down and accept your arguments.
Step 3
Expand the boundaries of your understanding of your dispute. You cannot come to an agreement because it seems to you that your point of view is correct. But imagine that your husband thinks that you disagree with him because you do not understand his opinion. Let him know that you recognize the right for his solution to exist, and, undoubtedly, what he offers, but there is a better option - yours.
Step 4
A polite, submissive silence works well to persuade a husband. Just leave the room in the midst of an argument. When you return, behave at ease, politely, but remain silent. After a while, the husband is obliged to surrender!
Step 5
It is possible to convince a husband with the help of children. Because he loves them (as you do), so the “kids will love this” argument works very well.
