In life, there are not only joyful events, but also disappointments, sometimes very bitter. Among them, of course, is the breakdown of relations with a loved one. It is especially difficult for women because of their greater emotionality. The reasons can be very different. There is no need either to put an end to oneself, or to strike at opposite extremes. The fact that someone is unlucky with a particular person does not mean that bad luck will pursue their whole life. So how do you meet new love?
Instructions
Step 1
First of all - calm down, pull yourself together. Drive your emotions away and call on common sense. It's not easy for all people, especially women, but you have to overpower yourself! Objectively and impartially analyze the reasons for the breakup, first of all, your own behavior. Resist the understandable and natural temptation to blame "this villain" for all the blame. Believe me, this will only do you a disservice to yourself! If in what happened there is also your share of fault - it is better to honestly admit it. After all, this means that you can avoid the same mistake in the future.
Step 2
In no case do not become isolated on what happened, do not endlessly complain to your mother, relatives, girlfriends, acquaintances. We cried once - that's enough! Because they will feel sorry for you all the time, saying: "All men are bastards!", Nothing will change. Unless you yourself get used to the role of a loser or a sufferer, and you need it?
Step 3
Remember the examples when a woman who experienced the same trouble and already mentally “put a cross on herself” met new love and literally “blossomed”. Surely this happened either with your relatives, or with friends, or with acquaintances, or with the acquaintances of their acquaintances, finally. It cannot be that they have never heard such a story! Tell yourself, "If she's lucky, why the hell can't I get lucky ?!"
Step 4
Be sure to try to change your environment. It is very useful, at least for a while, to leave the place where everything reminds of this bitter page in your life. Go to the resort - there is simply no better way to start a romance. Find an overseas tour, depending on your financial capabilities. Don't sit still, within four walls! Meet with unfamiliar men more often!
Step 5
Go out to people more, do not refuse an offer to attend a party, because, as a rule, many acquaintances are made there. Attend a variety of creative events. If you can't find a new love, maybe you should change your image? Or change completely.
