Many girls have dreamed of becoming brides for many years, but their desire continues to be only a dream. However, there is no need to blame bad karma, the “crown of celibacy,” or the numerical superiority of women over men in our country. Most likely, the fact is that the girl in her desire to get married is doing something wrong. What is the right way to behave in order to meet the groom?
Instructions
Step 1
First, think about where you are looking for dating men. If most often you go to nightclubs or bars to meet a potential groom, you most likely will not meet him there. Men in such places are looking for easy acquaintances, and, most likely, will not consider the girl they met there as a bride.
Step 2
Approach the search for places for acquaintances wisely and on the basis of requests for your future husband. So, in the gym you can meet a man who takes care of his appearance and health. In an auto parts store or building materials store, it's not hard to meet a man who is a jack of all trades. You can also meet the groom using the Internet, at one of the many dating sites. By the way, in this case, the geography of search expands, and thus you can find both Russian and foreign fiancés.
Step 3
Reconsider your appearance. If the grooms are not eager to continue dating you after several meetings, perhaps your style of choosing a wardrobe does not match their image of an ideal wife. Perhaps you dress too plain, prefer “uni-sex” clothes, or, on the contrary, look too defiant. In choosing a wardrobe, try to stick to the golden mean, and strive to look not so much fashionable as feminine.
Step 4
If you have no problems with dating, but all men seem to you to be somehow “not so”, sit down and think about what seems to be the main thing for you in your future husband. Very often, girls do not know exactly what kind of man they need, and in their choice they are guided by the type of men that friends prefer and advise fashion magazines. Some time after the beginning of a relationship with such a man, the girl realizes that she does not feel genuine spiritual closeness with him, and rushes into a new search, along the way being disappointed in men. To prevent this from happening, determine what qualities in a man are important for you in the first place, and start building relationships only after the potential groom has passed the test for compliance with these particular qualities.
