The modern rhythm of life leaves almost no time for personal life. But how can you get to know a girl if you can't often go to clubs, restaurants and other establishments where you can meet your soul mate? You need to use the world wide web!
Register on social networks and dating sites (VKontakte, Facebook, Mamba, Loveplanet), find the girl you like. Do not send her trivial messages like "How are you", "What are you doing", "Let's get acquainted". Also, don't compliment how beautiful, slim, and stunning she is. Believe me, with this approach of yours, the girl will not distinguish you from the crowd of fans who dream of meeting her. The message should be unusual, it should interest her.
If you don't know what the first post should be, study her page: interests, hobbies, hobbies, etc. For example, if she is a student at an educational institution, write to her the following message “Hi. Do you have there at the university (college, school, lyceum) all the girls are so charming or are you the only one like that? The lady will surely be surprised by your unusual approach to acquaintance and she will certainly want to answer that she alone is the most charming person in her school. This is just one example, get creative!
Joke more. Do not reflect on the hardships of life and do not tell the young lady about your problems. In no case should this be done! Add a touch of positive to your virtual communication, which can become real over time.
Write correctly. Of course, it is not at all necessary to be a philologist, but you should know the basic rules of the Russian language. Read special literature. Also, you must show your erudition. Tell us about your interests, hobbies, ask the girl what she likes to do. If, for example, she likes to have fun, take her out on a date and bring her to a fun party.
Don't be pushy. If the girl refused you, you do not need to persuade her to talk to you. Compliment her and leave her alone. Perhaps after a while she will write to you herself, and you will have friendly, casual communication.
As you can see, you can get acquainted with a penpal girl using various methods. Only here you need to understand that there is no guarantee that the lady will want to communicate with you. And here it may be due to many factors. Maybe she has a boyfriend? Or does she just not like online dating? Perhaps she just won't like you. The reasons may be different, here it is important not to despair and try to strike up a virtual conversation with other representatives of the fair sex.
