Someone is waiting for this moment for several weeks, others put a period of two or three dates, and there are those who do not refuse a kiss within an hour after the first meeting. Which one is right?
How do you know when it's time?
Actually, there are no strict criteria in this matter. Today, young people are not restrained by any particularly strict moral norms in this regard, and everyone decides on the permissibility of a kiss or even intimacy on their own. But how do you make this very decision? It's simple - listen to yourself.
Sometimes one glance at a person is enough to understand that he is sympathetic to you and this sympathy is mutual. And it so happens that the relationship between a man and a woman is tied up gradually and very slowly. It seems that there is no dislike, but also a special desire to kiss - too. This suggests that you need to wait a little longer. Maybe the next time you meet, you will feel ready to kiss. But it also happens that this does not happen. Then the relationship often does not develop further.
When you shouldn't kiss
Situations are different. Sometimes an hour after meeting you are ready to follow a man even to the ends of the world, but it happens that you feel that you need to wait a little with a kiss. You also need not rush if you like the man, but you do not want to encourage him too much. Alas, sometimes the stronger sex can misinterpret this behavior of a girl and conclude about her availability. Remember, although today no rigid framework has been established on this score, it will be much more pleasant for a man to think that your kiss is the merit of his personal charm and some effort.
Although a kiss does not particularly oblige you to anything, remember that this is a certain stage in the relationship between a man and a woman. And this stage requires a certain closeness. After all, it is almost impossible to find out enough about each other in an hour, think about it, is it worth kissing a person who is practically unfamiliar to you? And this is not about the moral and ethical side of the issue, but about your personal feelings and outlook on life.
A kiss is not a reason to meet
By the way, there is one curious theory about kissing at the very beginning of dating. Its authors assure that it is at the moment of a kiss that a man and a woman can understand whether they want to continue communicating or whether they can say goodbye and never remember each other again. That is, the decision is made not by your intellect or your heart, but by your body. In the process of kissing, the body produces a hormone of pleasure, in addition, partners can draw some conclusions about the passion of each other's natures and understand how good they are together.