As a rule, women tend to strive to preserve and maintain family relationships, and not deliberately destroy them. In turn, living together tends to present not only joys, but also misunderstandings and related problems. At the same time, if you have already tried more than once to make efforts to build a strong family, but are still convinced that your marriage was a mistake or you have another one with which you really want to be together, then there is only one way out - to leave.
Instructions
Step 1
Talk to your wife. Start your conversation by saying that you should discuss how to move on. Explain to your wife that you are already tired of constant fights and you need to stop communicating for a while.
Step 2
Live separately. Decide for yourself if you really want to break up with your wife. Maybe the problem is not with her, but with you. Answer yourself to the question if you love her. If you no longer have feelings for your wife, then tell her directly that you want to get a divorce.
Step 3
Analyze what exactly you dislike about your partner, what has changed since you swore your love to her. Remember what actions you did for her, how much effort you put into making this woman your wife. If all this only strengthens your position - to get a divorce, then do not hide it.
Step 4
Apply for divorce. Of course, your wife is unlikely to like it, but you have already decided everything for both of you. Talk to her again, tell her that you have filed for divorce and nothing will stop you. Look at the reaction of your wife, maybe she is already tired of living together with you. In this case, she will not throw a tantrum.
Step 5
Do not console your wife and under no circumstances say that everything will be fine. You do not need to pronounce such words, they will only humiliate your wife. Now you don't have to take care of this woman, she is no longer yours.
Step 6
You can use other ways, not to say anything about your feelings, but to make your wife stop loving you. To do this, just do everything that she does not like. Do not listen to her reproaches, scatter your things around the house … Just know that it is better to sit down and talk calmly. Behave as your heart tells you - you can lose a loved one, but then return later - it is unlikely …