The home tyrant is the undeniable authority in the family. He strives to ensure that the last word always remains with him. In his reasoning, he is often categorical and does not tolerate opposition. It is difficult to recognize the future family dictator in a timid and shy young man. However, there are a number of signs by which an authoritarian man can be identified. Who is he, the despot terrorizing his loved ones.
Instructions
Step 1
The house tyrant always has a very conservative view of the family. He believes that Domostroy is the best, proven over the years, family model.
Step 2
The home tyrant will try to do everything to isolate his spouse from communication with others. No bachelorette parties and gatherings with close friends. The tyrant believes that communication with women, especially unmarried ones, can have an extremely negative effect on the behavior of his half.
Step 3
If the wife of a domestic despot has a hobby, he will also strongly oppose it. No gyms or hobby clubs. All the time it will seem to him that his wife may fall outside the house under the bad influence or, God forbid, start an affair on the side. As a rule, such suspicions have no basis at all, but the tyrant does not care at all.
Step 4
The tyrant is always extremely categorical in his judgments and statements. He is inclined to always insist on his own and categorically does not accept someone else's opinion: "There are two points of view in the world - mine and the wrong one."
Step 5
In childhood, the future despot was often pampered. He was often the beloved only child in the family. Loving parents often followed his lead, indulging all his whims and whims.
Step 6
Domestic tyranny can also be inherited from father to son. Perhaps, since childhood, the boy saw a similar model of the family, where the man was an indisputable authority, which all family members should obey and fear.
Step 7
The main goal of a home tyrant is to assert himself at the expense of his household and show them that without his participation, no one is able to do anything here on their own. In his lexicon there are many derogatory statements such as: "A woman is a man's friend" or "A woman without a man is zero without a stick."
Step 8
The domestic tyrant does not tolerate the superiority of a woman, even in those matters in which he himself does not understand anything. What can we say about the typically "male" activities, such as driving a car. For example, a common judgment: "A woman driving is a monkey with a grenade" or "A woman should have only one car - a washing machine."
Step 9
The despot tries to establish total control in the family. He can oversee all areas of family life. The tyrant constantly monitors expenses and may even check receipts from stores in order to once again point out to his wife that he is too extravagant and inability to handle money.
Step 10
Usually tyrants have a very bad sense of humor. These people are simply incapable of self-irony. Such a man is capable of deliberately showing disdain for his wife, completely ignoring her feelings. It costs him nothing to begin to openly ridicule her in the presence of strangers.
Step 11
The tyrant imposes his will. He believes that he knows better than others how to think in a given situation, and all this is done for the good of the family.
