First love is the very feeling that every person experienced. First love cannot be compared with anything, because it is emotions and experiences that are memorable for a lifetime that leave a mark on the heart and memory of a person. The first love in youth is especially pleasant, when a person loves sincerely and purely, and not from principles, experience and reasoning.
A teenager who has not previously experienced first love, as a rule, goes crazy with sensations. In addition to these feelings, emotions and feelings, first love also gives the teenager the opportunity to gain valuable life experience. First love teaches him to show his feelings, take care of his soul mate and be aware of the responsibility for her. Also, first love greatly affects relationships with the opposite sex in adulthood.
Some people, having met in adolescence with a feeling of unrequited or tragic love, in most cases, cannot set themselves up for a normal life with a soul mate in the future. Usually such people, having found a soul mate, are afraid to open up to her, they develop complexes, as a result of which they will not be able to build a serious relationship.
First love is not always associated with physical intimacy, but today our society itself pushes adolescents into an early and increased interest in sex. Many people mistakenly think that the sooner adolescents get to this stage, the better and more mature they will become. Not yet fully formed "adults" are pushed to such closeness by the stories of friends, magazine covers, television and, of course, the Internet. Also, hormones play an important role, which begin to make themselves felt in adolescence.
You need to understand that for a teenage boy, the first sexual contact is an achievement, while for a teenage girl, a future mother, having sexual intercourse too early can have negative and undesirable consequences. Everything should always have its time, so the task of parents at this stage is to be as attentive as possible. It is necessary to conduct cognitive conversations with your child, because a teenager who has made hasty conclusions and made rash decisions risks eventually becoming disappointed and losing understanding of the processes of sexual intimacy, which is not like the intimacy that teenagers usually see in magazines and films.
It is also necessary to remember that a teenager in love does not think about anyone or anything other than the object of his adoration, so you need to try to convey to him that love should not affect his studies and the adolescent's attitude to the family. A fairly common mistake is that parents do not approve of the choice of their child and demand to end all his relationship with the other half.
