Parents think they know for sure what their children should do and how. Taking advantage of their superiority, they allow themselves to raise their voice to the child, trying to reason with the negligent child. This way of upbringing is not correct, so every parent needs to learn to control himself in any situation and try to never yell at the child.
In principle, it is unworthy for an adult to scream, especially at a baby who cannot defend himself. Therefore, it is very important for the parent to convince himself that he stops yelling at the child once and for all. As soon as the voice rises to the level of a shout, you need to stop and imagine yourself in the place of a person who is the standard of restraint and restraint, for example, some metropolitan or queen.
As soon as an adult notices that he is about to start yelling at his baby, you can also imagine a stranger yelling at the baby with the same words. In such a situation, any normal parent justifies his child or tries to smooth out the situation, only in this case the parent himself will need the excuses in order to avoid his own cry.
A parent can imagine in the place of his child a completely extraneous kid who has badly naughty. It will be easy to avoid the scream, since it is not supposed to yell at someone else's child.
In order not to yell at the child, you might think during an outbreak of anger that there are guests in the house. After all, it is inconvenient to swear in front of them, you can show your displeasure to the baby after they leave, after a while, and then the emotions will calm down.
Of course, any adult can break loose and shout at his child, but it is unlikely that after this he has a feeling of pride and satisfaction, and the child does not become more obedient from the screams. It should be remembered that children have the right to make mistakes, it is foolish to expect ideal behavior from them, so you should learn to restrain yourself, not shout at the child, but explain why this or that action is unacceptable.
