Each parent sometimes has to raise their voice to their own child. Everyone has their own reasons. Some say that children do not perceive the information that is conveyed in a calm tone. Others scold their baby like that. Psychologists, on the other hand, believe that raising the voice is primarily a manifestation of the weakness of the parents themselves.
Instructions
Step 1
If mom and dad cannot calmly agree with their baby, then in fact the problem is not in the child, but in the parents. Constant screams at the baby do not affect him in the best way and can even harm the child's psyche. In addition, screaming can become a habit, and the child will communicate in the same way with others and even with his parents.
Step 2
Usually, after the parents yelled at their child, they sincerely repent, but still continue to raise their voice from time to time. There are certain reasons for this.
Step 3
Adults are well aware that the child is much weaker than them. Parents often simply pour out all their emotional stress that has accumulated, for example, due to problems at work, quarrels with a spouse. That is, it is obvious that the child is not to blame for all this, but he still gets it, and all because adults understand that the child will not be able to answer them. Thus, the baby becomes a kind of lightning rod and even a punching bag, and he very quickly gets used to this role, and in later adult life he will adhere to this role, as he is accustomed to it.
Step 4
Even before the birth of the child, each parent has certain ideas about him. Parents dream that, for example, their son or daughter will definitely be excellent pupils and will go in for a certain kind of sport. But the child is a separate person and does not always meet the expectations of the parents. If mom and dad are too serious about this, then because of this they break down on the baby. The child begins to understand that he does not live up to the expectations of his parents, and this can lead to complexes.
Step 5
Adults are constantly in a hurry somewhere, they want to do everything as quickly as possible, but children lead a measured lifestyle and do not plan to rush anywhere, which often annoys parents. Therefore, they begin to raise their voices to hurry up the child. Although in fact the rhythm of his child's life must be respected, the child has the right to enjoy every minute of his life, there is no need to forbid him.
Step 6
Explaining something to a child in the most accessible and calm way is very difficult, so many parents find it much easier to yell. But this is the problem of the parents, it is not the child who should be corrected, but the mother and father must learn to communicate normally so that they do not have to resort to screaming during the conversation.
