An alcoholic in the family, this is a terrible misfortune for relatives and friends. These tips will help you put your lost spouse on the right path.
Instructions
Step 1
The wife, who has decided to take seriously the problem of the alcoholic husband, herself must completely give up alcohol. Alcohol should not be kept in the house, even for special occasions. The spouse needs to refuse to drink alcohol, even on holidays, or at a party, thus fully supporting the husband.
Step 2
If you need to take on yourself, try to always look well-groomed and attractive, become a woman next to whom there can be no drinking husband. If the man is drinking, distance yourself from him, for his own good. Remind your spouse that you still love him, but he will have to solve all his pressing problems himself.
Step 3
Do not allow bottlemates into the house, by all means, with the help of relatives and friends, isolate your spouse from bad influence.
Step 4
A woman will have to reconsider her attitude towards her spouse. You need to start fighting the disease in an amicable way. Do not criticize or humiliate your spouse, say that you love and believe in him, because before he was completely different. Boost your man's self-esteem.
Step 5
Ask your husband's parents for help. The authority of his relatives will make him ashamed of his behavior; he is unlikely to want to upset his parents. Talking to them will give them more incentive and desire to quit the addiction. Also, close friends can support a spouse, reminding him of what a wonderful person he was, how they miss the old days.
Step 6
If these tips don't help, you can try more effective methods. For example, when your spouse gets drunk, film him, then let him look at himself in all his glory. Threaten that you will send mail to friends, boss. Often this method will sober up a man's thoughts.
Step 7
When the husband's drunken behavior goes beyond all limits, without flinching, call the police and send him to the sobering-up station. A visit to this unpleasant institution will remain in memory for a long time and make a man seriously think about his problem, admit its existence.
Step 8
In critical situations, it is best to gather courage and send your spouse for treatment in a special hospital. Enlist the support of family and friends so that the pleas of your spouse do not soften your stamina, because everything you do is only for his good and for the benefit of the family.
