After 10-15 years of a happy married life, you can say almost anything you want to your beloved husband. He will accept it. But when a relationship is just starting, it is important to know what phrases a man should not say.
1) You remind me of an ex-boyfriend
Never remind your boyfriend of your past love relationship. This will not make his love stronger. These conversations are best reserved for girlfriends. Men are not only not attracted by these topics, but also cause a lot of negative emotions.
Why do guys react so negatively to words that mention a former boyfriend? The fact is that every man sees himself in the eyes of his beloved girl as one and only. If his beloved often mentions the name of the ex, it means that she does not fully accept the new relationship. After all, a truly in love girl cannot think of anyone else except her chosen one.
The conclusion is simple: forget the words that destroy the relationship - never remember past love. There is only one exception - you can tell if the man personally asks about it. And in this situation, you need to think about what to tell and what not to remember. And it is better to get away from the conversation altogether, saying that the former lover is not worthy of such attention to say something about him.
2) Your friend is very handsome, I want to get to know him better
Such words will affect a man even more than talking about former love. It is possible that a man will become jealous of his girlfriend for everyone. Do not forget that once you drop this phrase, you can say goodbye to your new relationship forever. And all because, as mentioned earlier, a young man wants to see himself as the only and irreplaceable in the life of a girl. And she gives out a rapturous speech about the beauty of his friend. Isn't that stupid? Therefore, before you say something, you need to think so that you do not regret it later.
3) Your mother is constantly present in our life
You shouldn't say that, because men love and respect their mothers very much. Mom for them is the main person, she gave life and raised. So it was and will always be and this cannot be changed. Therefore, one should not be surprised that many men, upon hearing an unflattering comment about their mother, will side with her. This applies even to those cases when in reality mom is wrong. It's not even worth wasting time here and sorting out your boyfriend's thoughtless behavior. It is important to remember only that, expressing a reproach to the mother, the girl also reproaches the youngest person. In any case, he perceives it this way.
4) All men are crazy about my beauty
More relationship-destroying words. Do not say this phrase ever! She does not decorate a girl, but makes a windy person in the eyes of a young man. After all, no man will agree to build a serious relationship with a frivolous beauty. For him, such words mean that competitors will always be there, and sooner or later he will get bored. And then, this phrase is an outright deception, because no matter how beautiful a girl is, she cannot be liked by all men. Everyone has their own taste and ideal of girlish beauty.
5) I'd rather give me roses
Your loved one bought lilies as a gift, but don't you really like these flowers? No need to offend the guy with such a remark. He tried, chose, bought and everything in order to make his beloved pleasant, but she did not appreciate it. And in general, it is difficult for the sterner sex to understand why to spend money on some flowers there, which will wither in a week and will have to be thrown away. Therefore, remember, if you want to be picky, then it is better to do it for another reason, otherwise the next time you can be left completely without flowers.
6) Tell me which blouse should I choose?
You shouldn't take a man with you to the store to buy another blouse or a pair of shoes. And the phrases "which blouse to choose?" or "which dress suits me best?" in general, it is better not to use more than two times, as they will simply annoy the man. Men do not like to go to fashion shops, as they think more about how to provide for their family. Moreover, the chosen one may, in principle, be incompetent in new fashion trends, so it will not be easy for him to keep up a conversation about style and color. Can a girl talk professionally about football (of course, there are exceptions to the rule)? Therefore, it is better to go shopping and discuss new collections with your friends, and you should not involve your boyfriend in hours-long trips.
But if a guy is a mod and dandy, loves to dress beautifully and lingers for a long time in one or another fashion store, then you can and even need to take him with you when shopping for new blouses.
7) Darling, do you love me?
A declaration of love for a young man is a very serious step for which you need to mature. If after some time the guy did not say these important and wonderful three words, then there is no need to rush him - everything has its time (of course, within reason). The question "do you love me?" you can simply confuse the young man. And if suddenly a girl hears a positive answer to her question, will he be sincere? Therefore, it is better to wait and not push the man to confess his love ahead of time. He himself will determine when and how to say about his love.
Knowing which female phrases can ruin a relationship, you can avoid many mistakes and fall in love with a man before losing his memory. Let him admire your wisdom, and not try to escape from stupidity and rash words.
