To build strong relationships in the family, you need to know what adversely affects the family, what factors can destroy it.
Instructions
Step 1
Conflicts over money issues are one of the first causes of divorce. The family budget must be adjusted, large-scale expensive purchases must be made together. Responsibilities in the family should be distributed, someone earns money, someone deals with household issues. The main principle of avoiding conflict situations associated with money is the honesty of spouses to each other. Do not be silent about financial problems, discuss, solve them together.
Step 2
A marriage that lacks normal, regular sexual relationships can also fall apart. Maintain the flame of passion, discuss possible problems, discontent. Try to diversify your sex life. Be attentive and gentle to your spouse and you are guaranteed success.
Step 3
Disrespect to each other can cause a breakdown in family relationships. No matter how difficult it is, keep yourself in control, do not allow yourself, in a fit of emotion, to call your husband (wife) names, to say nasty things. This disrespectful attitude can grow into a habit and significantly cool the relationship between spouses.
Step 4
Friends of the opposite sex can become a bone of contention. There is a truth that there is no friendship between a man and a woman and there is some truth in this statement. Even if you are one hundred percent sure of your innocent relationship with a friend (girlfriend), then put yourself in the shoes of your spouse. Would you like your loved one to communicate often, spend time with a friend of the opposite sex? Consider the opinions and feelings of the husband (wife). If you can't completely end the friendship, then at least keep the communication to a minimum.
Step 5
Broken promises. Lies, breaking promises, often lead a family to problems and ruin. If one of the spouses was caught in a lie and repents, then it is necessary to give the person a second chance, the opportunity to improve. All people have the right to make mistakes, and only through joint efforts can the situation be rectified and the lost trust restored.
Step 6
Relationships between spouses are hard work. Every day, together, a man and a woman should work to strengthen and improve relationships. Dumping these responsibilities on one of the spouses is wrong. You can't pull off a relationship alone. Do not be lazy, work on yourself every day, strive to become better and make your soul mate even happier.
