It probably doesn't make sense to say that loving a workaholic is really difficult. He is never at home, and work always comes first. Nevertheless, if you still managed to fall in love with one of them, you will have to endure.
How to become workaholics
Even with general equals, there are men for whom a career is a kind of sport. They start playing and are no longer able to stop, and any victory and achievement at work brings them such a lot of positive emotions that no fishing or going to the gym can compare. It also happens that a man would like to spend more time at home, but his work does not let him go. Things, like a snowball, accumulate and accumulate, and there is no way to quit them - after all, he feeds the family.
In both cases, workaholism can be compared to mental illness and by denying its existence, people only exacerbate the problem. Remember that in addition to work, any person always has a personal life, and it is necessary to devote time to it in the same way. There are, of course, neglected cases when a man literally lives at work for whole weeks, but at the same time he rarely has a family or relationship. If your workaholic managed to get a girlfriend, and even more so to marry, then all is not lost, and the situation can be corrected.
A man runs from problems
There is another type of workaholism that is not so easy to recognize. It happens that a man, on the contrary, uses work to escape from home. Alas, such cases are also not uncommon. If you have relationship problems, frequent scandals, or a messy sex life, a man may try to insulate himself from all this at work. You should not blame him for this, because, in fact, he chooses the path of least resistance - he tries to save your relationship.
I must say that if your man is hiding at work for this very reason, oddly enough, it will be easiest for you to fix the situation. Try to create a comfortable environment at home and make it pleasant to come back and the man wants to spend more time with you. Do not under any circumstances saw him and do not blame him for insensitivity and constant absence. Give him what he needs so much - your love and support.
Think about yourself
It is very important for a man that a woman can provide family comfort and take care of the house while he is working. Therefore, it is important to do everything in your power so that he is not disappointed in you. At the same time, if you see that a man comes home only to sleep and have dinner, does not notice you at all and does not try to fix something, think, do you need such a relationship?
