Many people make mistakes, but they do not always find the strength to admit it, which can affect family relationships. A woman can demand an apology and an awareness of guilt, but it can be difficult for a man to do this, because he is afraid to drop his authority by admitting that he is wrong. But it's best to confess on time, without waiting for the conflict to go too far.
Instructions
Step 1
A woman will not be able to believe that you have realized your guilt and admit your mistake until you say it out loud. Do not expect that it will be enough just to apologize, find the strength to explain yourself and demonstrate remorse. You hurt your beloved woman, so she does not want to repeat such situations at all if you pretend that you do not understand why she is offended or angry. Admit your guilt or ask her to explain what exactly about your behavior did not like her - sometimes the resentment is caused simply by the fact that you perceive the same situations differently.
Step 2
The reluctance to admit is often due to the fact that this can strike your self-esteem, you do not want to openly say about your weakness. But this is not at all a manifestation of strength. Strength of character lies in the ability to admit a mistake and correct it. You cannot be a strong man until you protect your woman from the grievances and troubles that you have caused her as well. Do not make her suffer and cry, just say: "Sorry, darling, I understood everything!" This is often enough.
Step 3
Do not bring the matter to scandals - talk to your beloved. If you sincerely do not understand why her reaction was so strong, if it seems to you that she “makes an elephant out of a fly,” try to understand her inner world, ask her to explain such a reaction. If you are sincere, she will make an attempt to analyze her feelings and, perhaps, understand that you did not commit the wrongdoing.
Step 4
In the event that you do not feel guilty at all and think that you have nothing to admit, you should also not ignore her resentment. In this case, the misunderstanding between you will only increase. Explain your position, the motives that determine your behavior. It is not at all necessary to admit your guilt if you do not feel it, so as not to become a victim of manipulation. Seeking rapport is the only way to cope with difficult family situations.
