"Nothing lasts forever under the moon." Unfortunately, this gloomy saying in some cases is true in relation to family life. After all, many spouses, not only young, but also with experience, gradually begin to cool down towards each other, find fault with mistakes, shortcomings of partners. As a result - quarrels, scandals, disappointment. And in some cases this naturally leads to divorce. How can you avoid this danger by keeping love in your marriage?
Instructions
Step 1
Remember, marriage is the art of compromise. The nature of a person is such that his own habits, tastes, views seem to him the most correct, are put in the first place, and he treats his shortcomings with condescension (or does not notice them at all). And he often disdainfully treats the views, tastes and habits of another person, even a marriage partner, while other people's shortcomings annoy him. As a result, quarrels, claims, and mutual grievances begin between the spouses. And the more often this happens, the faster love can disappear. Therefore, do not consider your opinion as the ultimate truth. Always try to listen carefully to your spouse, calmly discuss a controversial issue with him, try to come to a compromise solution. Somewhere you can give in.
Step 2
Be condescending to your spouse's shortcomings. After all, your partner is not an angel, but a living person! If any habits or manners of your partner cause you severe discomfort, talk frankly with him about this topic, but only calmly, politely.
Step 3
Be tactful, recognize your spouse's right to personal space, hobbies, and hobbies. Some people take the saying "Husband and wife are one Satan" too literally. Sincerely believing that spouses should always be close, that there can be no secrets between husband and wife, they begin to behave too frivolously, sometimes tactlessly, hurting the pride of partners. For example, they browse without permission the spouse's e-mail or incoming-outgoing calls, SMS in his mobile phone. Or they demand that the spouses spend all their free time together. As a result, the husband is deprived of the opportunity to chat with friends or go to the stadium, fishing, and the wife cannot chat with her friends in a cafe or go shopping while shopping. Here is a ready-made reason for dissatisfaction, irritation!
Step 4
Remember that in marriage you must be tactful, that the partner is not your property, he is not obliged to spend every free minute only with you. Do not forget about the miraculous power of kind words, compliments. Always try to scold less, find fault (even if you have something for that), and praise more often, say kind words. Please your soul mate with surprises, gifts, even modest ones. Create a warm, welcoming environment in your home. If you behave in this way, love in the family will not disappear, but only become stronger.
