The first date - it is this that serves as the starting point of any relationship, it is about it that older couples who have spent together for many years remember, and it depends on it whether the lovers will be together. So getting ready for your first date should be taken very, very seriously.
The first date is a kind of transition from one relationship to another, closer, more intimate. On the way to it, partners already go through several stages - acquaintance, friendship, telephone conversations and timid personal conversations, knowledge of the inner world of the prospective partner, his habits and preferences. But after the first date, after the first few hours spent together, the relationship changes dramatically, moving into a new phase.
The first date can be anything you want - fun and active, quiet and romantic, or sporty, tourist or even comic. The secret of its success, in any case, lies in the fact that both partners should like and remember it. Moreover, the scenario of the date is not so important as the choice of the place where it will take place.
How to decide on the place of the first date
Before making a date, making an appointment, you need to decide on its place. It is important to understand that both men and women should be comfortable and cozy there. If one of the partners will feel “out of place”, that is, there is a risk that he will withdraw, will not be able to relax, open up, and will refuse the second date altogether.
As a rule, the choice of the place for the first private meeting falls on the shoulders of the man. Many of them make the most unforgivable mistake, preferring the place that seems comfortable to him, where exactly he will look like a real macho, capable of feats and beautiful deeds. Basically, a man invites a lady to visit a cafe or restaurant, which, of course, is also liked by many women. But in order to truly surprise your partner, you can unobtrusively ask her or her friends about what she loves, what she dreams about and what she is dreaming about. After all, it may happen that she wants to go on a picnic in the park, go ice skating or skiing, wander, for example, in the zoo or on the roofs of houses in the moonlight.
A girl can also take the initiative in choosing a place for a first date, but, again, in accordance with her desires and the desires of her partner. A man who does not like noisy parties and clubs will not be able to open up and show all his best qualities on a noisy dance floor, and a party-goer can just fall asleep at a movie show.
The most unusual places for a first date
The amusement park is one of the most ideal places for a first date. Only here you can sit in a quiet cafe, ride a roller coaster, and dance. But his main plus is that his visit returns to childhood, liberates and helps to get to know each other better, to understand what kind of person is next to him, and what type of entertainment he prefers.
Sports events and facilities or a bowling alley club are good places for a first date for a couple who met in a training session or, for example, a football match. The very place of the first meeting indicates what will be interesting to both of them, what will truly captivate and enjoy.
A visit to a zoo or a picnic in a city park, as well as an amusement park, helps to relax and return to childhood, has confidence, but only if the partner prefers a quiet and relaxing holiday.
Well, if both partners love secular parties and noisy clubs, then for the first date you can order the VIP-zone in one of the best nightlife in the city. There you can, as they say, show yourself, look at people, and spend time with the subject of adoration.
