Having met a nice guy on the Internet, do not rush to create illusions about him. Correspondence on the network is a delicate matter, but the character of a person is more vividly manifested when communicating in person. The meeting place where he invited you will help to tell about the many traits of a potential boyfriend.
1. Amusement park or entertainment center. The guy clearly loves fun, drive and adrenaline. Or maybe he missed the cloudless and vivid childhood impressions. Observe what games and attractions he chooses.
A lover of hard games with elements of fighting and the sight of blood is a likely aggressor who hates submission. A skillful shooter who won a soft toy for you in a shooting range can have a strong masculine character. Behind such, as behind a stone wall, he will get any star from the sky if he sets himself a goal.
Entertainment hunters are still children at heart, spontaneous and impulsive. They do not know how to adequately perceive criticism, but they are sincere in their impulses.
2. Water park or beach. The sly man decided to see the charms of your figure in reality in the shortest possible time and at the same time demonstrate his muscles. Most likely, you are only attracted to him as a sexual object. Water is known to be relaxing and hinting at resort hobbies. Enjoy swimming, but be on the lookout.
If the guy in the water does not immediately try to give free rein to his hands and feel your charming forms, but only occasionally supports you or teaches you to swim, this indicates a potential desire to protect and care.
3. Nightclub, beer bar or private party. The guy who chooses for a date with crowded and noisy places with the possibility of drinking, does not seem to be ready for heart-to-heart conversations. If in five minutes of being in the club, at least ten people nodded to him in greeting, then he is here - a seasoned person. Pay attention to the number of intoxicating drinks he drank and the financial side of the question: who is treating whom.
Run away from such a boyfriend if, in addition to you, he shoots his eyes in the direction of long-legged dancers, or, conversely, tries to arrange a showdown with other guys just because they looked at you.
4. A picnic in nature or a romantic date by boat. The guy understands the peculiarities of female psychology and knows exactly what a woman wants. Pay attention to the division of responsibilities. “Rest, I'll do everything myself” is an ideal phrase, but too ostentatious.
It is best if a man takes on the lion's share of the responsibilities and tells you what kind of help you need. Keep in mind that romantic evenings overlooking the water, a fire and the luxury of nature dull the voice of reason - you can rashly fall in love and forget about everything.
5. Extreme recreation. Nothing reveals the essence of character as a joint extreme. With his choice, the guy wants to show you his world, full of dangers and adventures. If you are not ready or afraid, it is better to report it right away so that no awkward situations arise. However, it is worth going on a date: an extreme guy can teach a lot, for example, how to survive in a forest or conquer a mountain peak.
In any case, on a date, you should behave naturally and at ease, you can talk about what you want and take spontaneous actions. A person will either love you and accept you with all the flaws, or go to look for another half.
Any outcome of a date should be treated as an important life lesson - you received and assimilated certain information and met a new person. Whether it will be useful in the future or not is up to you.
