Many girls and women are seriously concerned about the problem: how to wean your young man from constantly using obscene words in his speech? This is, of course, not an easy matter and will require joint efforts. The main thing that should not be done categorically is to issue him an ultimatum: either me, or mate.
Instructions
Step 1
Try again to talk to him about the fact that mate is an indicator of lack of culture and, as a result, impoverished intelligence. To his possible arguments that great writers were also not averse to screwing in a strong word, counter that, firstly, he has not yet received the right to be called great; secondly, many examples, cited even in collected works, are only attributed to these authors; and thirdly, even those who really belong to the pen of celebrities were taken mainly from private correspondence with male friends, but not with ladies.
Step 2
If no persuasion helps, start a conversation about the dangers of the mat from afar. Start a conversation with him about what you recently read about a very interesting method of compensating for inner complexes. Try to draw him into this conversation by asking the question: "What do you think this method is?" If he cannot put forward a single digestible version, reveal the secret by saying that this method has long been well known to him - swearing at every convenient and inconvenient occasion. However, there are also such “cadres” who will answer your categorical statement: “Yes, I am like that. I have low self-esteem, haven't you noticed? " Such an answer will add to your headache, giving rise to doubts: is it not because he is with me that he does not dare to count on more? And your self-esteem will begin to decline rapidly, too.
Step 3
Try one extreme but powerful method. If he wants to introduce you to his parents, prepare properly for the meeting, but keep a snake up your sleeve. After he introduces you to his father and mother, say with the most innocent look some phrase that is suitable for the situation with elements of profanity. And as if by chance noticing the puzzled looks of the parents and the discouraged look of the young man, say: "I thought it was customary in your family …". There may be a lot of options for the development of events after such a general embarrassment, but at least you can finally make it clear to your chosen one what others think of him when he constantly sprinkles his speech with dirty words.
Step 4
Stop reacting to his words to you when you see that he never learned to hold back in your company. If all is not lost, then he will analyze his recent actions and will be able to connect them with what you and him probably have already talked about more than once. Well, if he never managed to figure out why you do not want to talk to him, then such a young man is unlikely to understand you in the future.
