If your ears start to choke on the number of swear words heard, then the time has come to wean him from swearing, or at least limit the use of swear words in your presence. In order to wean a person who swears at work all day is surrounded by the same people who use profanity when communicating, you need to be patient and persistent.
Instructions
Step 1
Start by asking you to avoid swearing in everyday conversations. In this situation, the main thing is to choose the right tone and intonation. They should sound sincere and not look like an order.
To achieve the desired effect, repeat your request at least once a day. Come up with some specific arguments why you need to stop using foul language.
Step 2
Patiently and persistently offer to stop swearing. Try to interest him in some small material benefits. Even a comic sentence can make you stop using obscene words.
For a start, try to achieve at least the fact that he swears in a low voice, and not to the whole room. After he learns to swear very quietly or to himself, then the meaning of expressing violent emotions with the help of profanity will disappear for him.
Step 3
Record his speech on a dictaphone and let it listen.
Offer to spend a day dealing with swear words. Put a piggy bank, and have him put there a certain amount of money for each spoken obscene word.
Step 4
Shame on him, explain that he sets a bad example for children.
Talk heart to heart with him more often, explain that it is unpleasant for you to listen to obscene words all the time. A person will not be able to unlearn swearing until he really wants to. This is the same as with cigarettes or alcohol. If he can’t completely disaccustom himself to swearing, then let him do it in the circle of his friends, and at home he tries not to use swearing.
