Foul language is an unpleasant thing. Moreover, if the child pronounces rude words. Parents can only be surprised - where did he get this from? A child can overhear rude expressions anywhere - in the kindergarten, in the yard, from adults, even from the parents themselves. Admit it, sometimes you allow yourself to be rude and don't notice it yourself. But not a child - everything new acts on him like a magnet, and he tries to test everything in practice. Including new words.
Instructions
Step 1
Tell your child sternly when you hear foul language: “Nobody uses such words in our family! Never say such ugly words. " If the child is five years old, this suggestion should work. It is at this age that babies begin to form an idea of ethics. In response to the remark, you risk hearing: “Why is this word ugly? I like it! " or "I heard this word from my dad!" Here, be ready to show your resourcefulness, imagination, ingenuity - whatever, just to prove to your child that mate is not for little kids. It is necessary to conduct a preventive conversation with the spouse and other family members who allow themselves to swear in front of the child.
Step 2
Swearing is a special kind of disobedience. Especially if the child is already 6-7 years old. At this age, children know that rude words make their mother angry, but they pronounce them on purpose to attract attention. Consider why the child is trying to get attention in such a sophisticated way. Perhaps you are not giving him enough time?
Step 3
Monitor your child's TV interactions. Often rude words come from the TV. Especially if they are spoken by "a really cool hero." The kid can be carried away by a negative character or a real person. “Here is Seryoga - a real hero! He has a motorcycle and tattoos! " Sound familiar? The kid can be attracted by the masculine image of any "earring", and, accordingly, he begins to adopt the habits of this person, including speech. Monitor your kid's social circle.
Step 4
Observe in what situations the child swears most often: when he does not succeed in something and he is reproached for it. Swearing, he tries to confirm - “Yes, I can't do anything. And you all do not understand and do not love me! Also, a child can swear out of a feeling of revenge, out of a desire to escape from parental care. The reasons may vary.
