In the modern world, it is difficult to protect a child from the negative influences of the social environment, but, nevertheless, parents do everything possible to keep the upbringing and moral qualities of their child at the proper level, and it is worth working on this from the earliest years of the baby. Often, a child shocks his parents with profanity or, more simply, with the usual swearing. If you understand in time the reasons why the child began to swear and take timely measures, you can cope with the problem.
Instructions
Step 1
How you solve the problem depends a lot on how old your child is. If your toddler begins to speak harsh words from one to three years old, think about your own speech, as well as how your family members communicate with each other. A small child repeats everything he hears, so it is quite possible that he simply repeats obscene words after his parents, grandparents. Analyze your speech and watch yourself. If a child hears beautiful literary speech in his own home, not spoiled by rude expressions, in the future you will not have to be ashamed of his manner of speaking. Never use foul language in front of a child.
Step 2
If a child of four to five years old begins to swear, perhaps this is due to age-related psychological characteristics - the child begins to master the world around him, which means that he begins to replenish his vocabulary not only at home, but also on the street. Try to distract the child, direct his attention and energy in a positive direction, explain to him which words are bad and which are good.
Step 3
Let your child understand that good people use only beautiful words in their speech, confirming this rule with their own speech behavior and the behavior of other family members. Learn poetry with your child, read fairy tales and books that use the correct literary speech.
Step 4
In older ages - six to nine years old - mate can be caused by the child's socialization. It is at this age that children begin to go to school, which means that they adopt the communication style from classmates, who, in turn, could adopt this style from their parents. At this stage, let your child understand that there are words that should not be used in communication. Encourage your child to speak correctly and clearly.
Step 5
If a child swears at the transitional age of up to sixteen years, this is caused by the psychology of a teenager - he wants to look no worse than his peers, demonstrates his independence and attractiveness next to friends. This stage must be lived with the child, and it is worth weaning the child out of the mate with the help of logical arguments.
Step 6
Give the teenager scientific facts as arguments, proving that obscene words can negatively affect his fate, and beautiful and literary words not only improve his life, but also attract the opposite sex.
