Undoubtedly, love is a wonderful feeling that changes a person's worldview and sense of self. In most cases, newlyweds who have started a family life are faced with problems and conflict situations.
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Step 1
A person in love is in a constant sense of happiness, which is enhanced by interaction with a partner. However, love can not only inspire beautiful deeds, but also reduce the ability to reason sanely. Lovers have false expectations of their future life together. During the period of falling in love, young people are sure that all difficulties can be solved, love will last forever, and troubles and illnesses will bypass.
Step 2
Unfortunately, this model of making a serious decision is obviously unsuccessful. Both men and women should be aware of the responsibility they take and anticipate possible negative consequences. Even the strongest feelings are known to weaken over time. Therefore, it is not enough to create a family only on the feeling of mutual attraction. It is very important to be aware of the potential conflicts and difficulties that no family life can do without. Willingness for marriage should be expressed in the ability to give in, forgive, find compromises, and cultivate patience for partner's mistakes.
Step 3
The characteristics of the character and temperament of the future partner should be taken into account. Irritability, irascibility, categoricalness, tendency to criticism, resentment and other personal qualities significantly increase the risks of disagreements and contradictions. In order for mutual warm feelings not to be replaced by cold and alienation, it is important for future spouses to learn how to behave in controversial situations.
Step 4
Mutual concessions, respect for the individual, and wisdom can help ease tension in a relationship. In people, flaws are not excluded, so it is important to learn to accept a person for who he is. Since every person needs approval, you should control the behavioral reaction to certain actions of the partner, which seem to be erroneous. Intemperance and harsh assessments only exacerbate the psychological climate in the relationship.
Step 5
Cognitive differences between the sexes also explain the occurrence of conflict situations. Each person reacts to hurtful situations differently. Men in most cases experience negative emotions in themselves, remaining unperturbed. While women tend to sort things out and show violent emotions. In this case, one should not demand from the partner the behavior that was expected. It is necessary to understand the motives of the actions of another person, not to remake him, demanding unconditional obedience.
Step 6
It is important to understand that harmony in a relationship depends on the level of mental and personal maturity of partners. By interacting, partners adjust to each other, their characters "rub in". A common mistake is behavior that provokes conflicts and problem situations. On the contrary, common goals and interests, respect for the rights of another person to personal space, the distribution of responsibilities in everyday life and mutual assistance of spouses, strengthens the marriage.
