Children tend to copy the behavior of adults. Kids try to be like their parents, imitating them in everything. At a certain age, children begin to swear, and this habit must be fought.
Often the child speaks swear words unconsciously. He does not even understand their meaning, but continues to swear. Why? Because the baby copies adults, adopts this habit from other children, hears obscenities on the TV, on the street. But what should parents and loved ones do in this case? There is a main rule that you must impeccably follow: after the baby says a swear word, pretend that you did not hear him. In this case, the child will not be interested in using foul language. But this rule will work only if he does not systematically hear abuse from loved ones.
Family communication
First of all, you need to reconsider communication in the family. If one of the baby's relatives constantly swears, he will take it for granted and right. It is still difficult for a child to understand what is good and what is bad. He learns from adults. They are the ones who show him how to do the right thing and what to say. Watch your speech, do not swear in front of the child. Swear words are charged with negative energy, and the baby feels it. Do you want your child to grow up in a favorable environment? Then in no case use foul language at least in front of him!
How to make sure that the child does not use foul language?
As mentioned above, a child can hear swear words not only at home. And it is impossible to do something about it. You are not banning the baby in the apartment. It remains only to make sure that the obscene words are not fixed in the child's vocabulary.
In no case should you:
1. Slap the baby on the lips, make him lick the soap, pour salt or pepper into his mouth! This will reduce the child's self-esteem and have nightmares! There is also a risk that the baby will become a stutterer.
2. Do not tell everyone that the baby is swearing, because he will certainly want to "please" his mother again.
3. Punish the crumb in all possible ways and not tell him that swear words can be used in speech only by adults. The child will understand you this way: if you can only swear at adults, then you need to grow up quickly. And what is needed for this? Swear as loudly and often as possible.
Teach your child to express their negative emotions in a different way. For example, to be distracted by some business. Calmly explain to him that swear words are not good, that they cannot be pronounced. Tell him that the mat hurts people, that this is a real robber, who in no case should be allowed into his life. Tell your child that swearing is not a sign of strength, but a shameful habit.
