Any parent knows that it is very difficult to mend relationships with teenagers. Inside them, hormones are raging that cause sudden changes in mood, as a result, adolescents are constantly in a nervous state. Many questions torment the parents of children who are in transitional age, it is very important to find answers to these questions in order to competently behave in a given situation.
Instructions
Step 1
Often, children withdraw into themselves and declare a boycott to their parents, naturally, mom and dad begin to worry and do not understand how to behave at this moment, they try to bring the child to a conversation, and this only provokes conflicts.
Step 2
The fact is that children behave in this way because they want to appear both to those around them and to themselves, independent and independent from anyone. During this period, a child really needs his parents, but does not know how to ask them for advice, ask for support, he is afraid of meeting a misunderstanding, so he simply stops communicating with mom and dad. You need to show attention to your child, but it should not be intrusive, you just need to explain to the child that he can always turn to his parents for help, do not be ashamed of this.
Step 3
In adolescence, school performance often declines in children, naturally, parents begin to panic, get angry, and scold the child. First you need to understand the reasons why this happened. Most often, a decline in academic performance is associated with the presence of various kinds of problems, including problems with peers and in personal life. You don't need to make scandals, you just need to take a closer look at the child and try to help him, and not forcefully imprison him for lessons.
Step 4
When a child contacts a bad company, naturally, parents ask themselves why this happened, what contributed to this development of events. Not always the reason lies in the fact that the child himself is, so to speak, bad. Sometimes in such a company it is easier for children to hide from personal problems, family troubles, misunderstandings. In such companies, children are not taught wisdom, complete freedom operates there, and this is very attractive to the child.
Step 5
During this period, it is important to take the right position. If you constantly tell your child that his social circle is bad and forbid him to communicate with such people, he will do the opposite. You just need to have frank conversations with the child, but at the same time not speak badly about his friends, and perhaps even try to find something good in them.
Step 6
Complexes associated with appearance are also most often manifested in adolescence, and parents often do not understand what exactly does not suit the child in his appearance, because he is almost perfect. This is a common stage of growing up, in which parents should often compliment the child and celebrate his merits so that the teenager does not lose self-esteem.
