Adolescence is very important for both the child and the parents. During this period, it is very easy to permanently ruin the relationship with your child. But on the other hand, if in adolescence to maintain a trusting relationship with a child, then there is a high probability that they will be so for a long time. How exactly the parents will behave during the transitional age largely depends on how their child will grow up in the future. There are some of the most common and dangerous mistakes that parents make and which they regret after a while, but it is almost impossible to correct the situation.
Instructions
Step 1
Loving mothers always try to be close to their children, try to protect them from various kinds of difficulties, want to help in everything, but excessive custody can play a cruel joke. When for a long time the mother does not allow her child to become independent, he gets used to the fact that everything is done for him by his mother, and ceases to show any initiative. Therefore, it is important to move away from your child in time and allow him to act as he wants. Yes, he can be wrong, but these will be his mistakes, and he will learn from them.
Step 2
When a woman has a child early, she quickly wants to self-actualize, build a good career. As a rule, adolescent children no longer need constant monitoring, therefore, parents often begin to pay active attention to their work during this period, sometimes simply forgetting about the child. Children most often do not complain, they get used to the fact that parents are absent for a long time, but only, starting to live separately in adult life, these children also forget to come to their parents, they often do not think about them. It is very important to always pay enough attention to your child so that he does not feel left out.
Step 3
Often in adolescence, children become very demanding, they can ask to buy various kinds of things, and if parents have the opportunity, they try to satisfy all the "want" of their child, because they think it is right. But later, such children often become spoiled, and it becomes extremely difficult to fix it. Parents should be aware of their actions and understand when a particular purchase is appropriate and when not.
Step 4
When parents scold their child for something, they often compare him with others, for example, with classmates. Such examples of moms and dads are often cited solely for educational purposes, but only such statements contribute to a decrease in the child's self-esteem, and as you know, people with low self-esteem are extremely insecure and this really hinders them in life.
Step 5
Parents always focus on their studies and sometimes even forbid their child to communicate with friends, believing that classes should be a priority. Because of such actions, the child can simply lose friends, and friends are needed by any person, since it is very important to be able to build friendly relations, there must be people with whom you can share various secrets and just talk.
Step 6
The adolescent period is not easy, but if the parents cope with it with dignity, the child will grow up as a harmonious personality.
