In the depths of his soul, almost every convinced bachelor dreams of a loving wife and a close-knit family. But fears, insecurities or complexes prevent them from achieving what they want. If you come across an inveterate bachelor, do not rush to discount him. First you need to figure out what type of them he belongs to and how to properly build a relationship with him.
Instructions
Step 1
Most often, frightened men become convinced bachelors. Probably, they were abandoned or humiliated in the past by some representative of the fairer sex. This was the reason that such men are afraid of close relationships, they are afraid to believe and reveal individuals of the opposite sex. If your chosen one is from this category of bachelors, then be ready to constantly prove to him that you are not a girl from his past. Your task should be to assure him that you do not want to marry him to yourself, and you should also not impose on him your tastes and your orders in his house and life. Become a close friend, lover for him, but do not forget about a sense of tact and patience.
Step 2
The second type of bachelor is mama's sons. Usually their mother is also attached to them, from whose care it is very difficult for them to free themselves. Moreover, even after the wedding, she will constantly be there, trying to take revenge on you for the separation from her son. To fall in love with a mama's son, you need, first of all, to please his mother. Therefore, never criticize her, shower her with compliments, especially when in the circle of mutual acquaintances. In addition, you need to earn her trust - you can ask the recipe for a wonderful cake that she is making, or advice on how to iron the trousers of her beloved son correctly.
Step 3
There are also bachelors who are not walking. They know how to look after beautifully, present flowers and gifts, but they never start a serious relationship. Most often, such men immediately say upon meeting that they are not created for family life. You should not indulge yourself with empty hopes and think that these are only words. Think carefully about what awaits you while living with him - constant betrayal, tears, resentment. But if you are confident in your desire to connect fate with such a man, you will have to become unpredictable and different. Diversity is the main thing with which you can keep it, and, moreover, it should touch all areas of your life with it. Also, you do not need to be jealous of him, it is better to make it clear that he will not find anyone more beautiful than you.
Step 4
A little strange, with an embarrassed smile on his face - this is what a botanist student looks like, also a bachelor in life. True, the reason for the absence of a family in his case is the lack of time. He is completely immersed in studies, science, and his house is more like a library. It should be understood that he is unlikely to be able to give you the necessary amount of attention and affection, and there will be eternal chaos in the apartment. But if you want to conquer such a man, you have to get patience. Show him that you share his hobbies and lifestyle. Take up reading or chess, or find some other interesting activity. Also keep in mind that you will constantly have to adjust to it.
Step 5
It is very difficult to decide to start a family for a super-responsible man. For him, marriage is inconceivable without a powerful material base. He will always have some goals, first housing, then a car, then a dacha. Therefore, your primary task will be to convince him that the material is not always the most important thing in life. Dreaming of marrying such a person, you need to subtly push him to the idea that it is necessary to legitimize your relationship. Try to invite him to your family holiday, show him that warmth and comfort in the house does not always depend on high material wealth.
Step 6
There are also very unlucky men, moreover, they are unlucky always and in everything. The reasons for this may lie in his childhood, past relationships, or he is simply not confident in himself. You can make him love yourself. To do this, you need to sincerely believe in him and convince him that he is a wonderful person who deserves the best. Try to find his talents, highlight them, compliment him, instill confidence in him, take up his work, clothes, make new friends. And when luck smiles on him, gently hint who helped him achieve this.
Step 7
Another reason men become committed bachelors is the pursuit of the ideal. Such a man is waiting for his princess, who will be beautiful, smart, economical and seductive at the same time. If you fit his ideal image, then adoration is guaranteed to you, but otherwise do not expect mercy. If you yourself strive for this, then you will become a great couple, you will only need to constantly emphasize your merits to him.
