A convinced bachelor is an integral, well-established personality. He is fit, energetic, goal-oriented and not worn out by financial problems. But very often, when dealing with this special category of men, difficulties arise.
Instructions
Step 1
Make sure you have a really inveterate bachelor in front of you. A man between the ages of 35-40 who has never been married or divorced 15 years ago. As a rule, he is not deprived of female attention, but he never starts a serious relationship.
Step 2
In the initial period of acquaintance, be patient and show observation. Singles are men with well-established ideals and habits. More often they prefer their own home, which they furnish with great taste. They have a well-established way of life, in which individual logic and system can be clearly traced. Therefore, keep in mind that your advice and help on this matter may not be entirely appropriate, and simply put, it is unlikely to be interesting.
Step 3
Consider that convinced bachelors are very caring sons, sympathetic brothers, uncles, etc. They honor family traditions and carefully plan their meetings with relatives. When making appointments, keep this in mind and plan ahead.
Step 4
Understand that unlike other men, a bachelor does not use his accomplishments, interests, and talents to seduce females and attract the attention of others. He takes his hobbies much more seriously. This is an important part of his life, and not just a way to escape from routine, boredom and worries. Knowing this, at his request, honestly express your opinion, do not flatter and do not try to use compliments in any way.
Step 5
Don't force things, enjoy the bachelor's attention. Men in this category have a fairly wide social circle. But in women, they primarily value loyal friends, attentive listeners and interesting interlocutors. They do not allow empty romantic relationships. This greatly distinguishes them from most men, who often start or end an affair with similar behavior. Moreover, bachelors do not like to be in female company for a long time. Therefore, do not jump to conclusions about starting a romantic relationship and do not compromise yourself.
Step 6
In men, bachelors see primarily good friends, acquaintances, business partners and friends who respect and value their independence and character.
Step 7
Try to become his friend. By virtue of his convictions, a man will appreciate your attitude and understanding of the situation. But be prepared for the fact that he will test your loyalty, and at the slightest encroachment on personal freedom, you may lose this chance and remain among his many acquaintances.
