When people are in a pair for a long time, they begin to fully trust their other half. And it seems that they can read each other's thoughts. But it is not so. It is during such a trusting relationship that one can seriously offend a loved one, touch the most delicate strings of his soul.
Instructions
Step 1
Your feelings have already grown stronger, and the passions of the first dates have subsided a little. You have learned to understand each other and listen to words. You are relaxed and completely confident in your other half. Attention! This is where the danger lurks. Most often, resentment against a loved one occurs due to the fact that in response to a frank confession, which was very difficult, the partner began to joke. For example, a person tells that in childhood he lacked maternal love and care, what feelings he experienced, how this was reflected in his entire subsequent life. And in response he hears: "But now the mother does not give a pass." Thus, you want to support the person, translate everything into a joke. However, the cry from the heart is not a reason for humor. Just support your partner, say that you are always there and will come to the rescue at any time. This is exactly what he needs now.
Step 2
You can offend your loved one with any careless word. For example, your partner gave you a gift that is a little different from what you wanted. This is not a reason to sort things out. Thank your significant other and tell them that you really like the present. And next time, just pick things together.
Step 3
A person is most sensitive to criticism of his loved ones. Therefore, even if the relatives of the second half are wrong in something, do not scold them. Just tell your partner why you disagree with their opinion. Needless to say, how boring, meticulous, envious, etc. they are. Do not pay attention to the statements addressed to you from their side. Just try to find common ground. You can do this with just about anyone if you find topics of conversation that interest both.
Step 4
Most importantly, learn to listen to your partner. Most often, a person voices what is not too pleasant for him, it just flies deafeningly. Learn to take note of your loved one’s speech and avoid sensitive points. Then there will be no reason for grievances.
