Everyone wants to live happily, as in good fairy tales, but not everyone understands what, sometimes inconceivable, efforts and work require a long happy family life.
The main secrets of success
Before connecting your life with this or that person, be sure to find out everything about him or her. You may be interested in a variety of points - from hereditary diseases to the inheritance that is due to your potential soulmate. The main thing is to ask yourself if you can live your whole life with this person. There should be no dark spots for you in the biography of your future spouse by the time of marriage.
Loyalty is undoubtedly the key concept for creating a happy couple. If you are going to connect your life with this person, tune in to be faithful to him. If you have not yet "walked up", it may be worth postponing the marriage. Most people believe that loyalty is the key to happiness in a couple.
Appreciate your husband or wife. Pamper, make compromises, give cute little gifts … A quarrel is better than a tense silence that erodes the marriage gradually, but a calm discussion of the problem is better than a quarrel. Be sure to clarify all conflict issues and make peace. You should not go to bed in a frustrated state, since the resentment only gets stronger over time, which means that it will be much more difficult to put up in the morning. If you find it difficult to compromise, imagine that your significant other is gone. If you really value your loved one, then it will not be so difficult for you to be the first to propose a truce.
If the couple is having problems, see a therapist or attend a couples workshop.
Don't let everyday life ruin the comfort of your family
Domestic problems have separated many strong couples. It is worth starting to fight with them from the very beginning of life together. Divide the responsibilities, buy home appliances (from a vacuum cleaner to a dishwasher), keep an eye on the house together. If both you and your other half are working, such a division of responsibilities is essential. Despite the stereotypical idea that a woman should lead the house, in the modern world, where a significant part of women work on an equal basis with men, women have earned the right to rest. Therefore, the separation of duties will greatly simplify your coexistence.
To keep your relationship healthy and strong, don't use sex as a manipulative means.
Mutual support in a pair is the key to success. Instead of nagging or reproaching your spouse, support, reassure, advise something. It is very important to listen carefully to each other on difficult days.
Sex life is an essential part of a happy relationship. At the very beginning, there are usually no problems in this regard, but over time, marital sex becomes boring, it becomes monotonous and boring. Unfortunately, things just don't work out in the sexual sphere. Buy sexy lingerie, read about role play, take the lead. There is a lot of literature on this topic on the net.
