If the relationship has outlived its usefulness, it is necessary to part, and to do it easily and beautifully, without insults, misunderstandings. No need to play "hide and seek", to make excuses for being busy in order to avoid an unpleasant conversation.
Instructions
Step 1
Having come to the conclusion that the relationship is exhausted, do not wait for everything to resolve by itself, but take courage and talk to your ex-lover. Do not start such a conversation on the phone - it is not polite, you need to talk about such a delicate topic in person. But do not try to start a conversation about the upcoming breakup in bed. To instill in a guy the idea that you are strangers in an intimate setting is unrealistic. In addition, you can appear in such a light that you will make an enemy. But this is not included in your plans, you want to leave beautifully!
Step 2
If you have firmly decided everything for yourself, then think over to the smallest detail what and how to say. Agree, the expression "You are not a match for me" sounds less disagreeable than "You and I are different." And not offensive, and true. Do not descend into accusations in the final conversation, you need to end the relationship on a positive note, and not engage in showdowns. It is advisable to start with memories of the pleasant minutes that your partner gave you, with a flattering assessment of his qualities.
Step 3
Most importantly, justify your decision, say, for example, "Our relationship does not deliver what we both deserve." The phrase "You are very good and worthy of a better girl than me" - sounds out of tune. Speak confidently, the man should have no doubt that your decision is firm and this issue will not be discussed further. Show diplomacy and patience, if the guy tries to provoke a conversation in a raised voice, and even worse - goes on to insults, just calmly turn around and leave. Don't put on an unworthy show.
