Cheating destroys family and love between spouses. After learning about infidelity, you can experience the most terrible feelings and blame your husband for everything. The reasons for treason can be hidden in the character of a man, in his outlook on life, in relation to the family. But it also happens that behind the act of a spouse seeking consolation on the side, there is a woman's wrong behavior.
Instructions
Step 1
Cheating as revenge If you constantly reproach a man for non-existent cheating, are jealous of everyone, annoy him with checks, then he may decide to cheat, so that in fact there is something to blame. If you yourself give him a reason to doubt your loyalty, allow yourself open flirting and relationships with other men, then the husband chooses treason as a means of revenge on you for the pain brought to him.
Step 2
Crisis in relationships Sometimes in family relationships there are crises associated with the appearance of a child, fatigue from everyday life and problems, cooling feelings. And in order to somehow get away from this, the man begins to look for relationships on the side. New sensations and emotions give him relaxation. To prevent this from happening, you must build an open and trusting relationship that allows you to have a heart-to-heart talk and talk about your feelings and concerns. And having learned that your spouse lacks attention and love, try to correct the situation in order to prevent betrayal. Do not forget about the appearance. You have to take care of yourself and even look pretty at home to attract your husband.
Step 3
Propensity to cheat There are such men who, at the sight of a beautiful woman, cannot control themselves. It is naive to believe that such a man will be corrected by the family. Sadly, it will not change, but whether you can live with a loving partner who conquers women is up to you.
Step 4
Insecurity If a man experiences lack of confidence in himself, in his attractiveness, then he may decide to prove to himself the opposite, realizing himself as a seducer of women. Behind this problem, perhaps, lies your wrong attitude towards your husband, unwittingly contributing to such a development of events. Your coldness and disdain can cause a man to doubt his ability to please someone and become an impetus for self-realization on the side.
Step 5
Love on the side Unfortunately, it also happens that your husband stops loving you and has feelings for another woman. In this case, holding it is useless. Of course, the usual passion or love may be hidden behind true feelings, which passes over time, and the man, realizing that he was mistaken, will try to return to the family.
