Sometimes women wonder if they should try to renew their relationship with their ex. The bad is easier to forget, and the good seems to be ideal, especially if you have not had your best experiences with other men after the breakup.
Instructions
Step 1
Firstly, you need to realize that you cannot build new relationships according to the old algorithms, because you have already tried it once, and ended up breaking up. You need to become a good actress and transform completely - speak differently, think differently, move and look differently. Think of a school of radio presenters - they will put your voice there, and it will sound different. In order to think in a new way, read at least ten deep books, for example, modern philosophers and thinkers. Movement will change if you go to a group of female plastic surgery. It is also good to change the hair color and figure, the usual makeup. Your ex should be under the impression that he met a new woman.
Step 2
Secondly, you know him well, which means that it will be easy for you to build new relationships. But in order for him to be interested in the relationship, you need to consider what you can give him that will be difficult for him to get from others. If so far you have nothing to give him, work on acquiring new qualities. For example, you can enroll in a personal growth group, work on your communication technique, and become an easier interlocutor.
Step 3
Third, when you are ready, over the phone, invite your ex to meet in a neutral area like a cafe, stipulating that you will pay for yourself. Try to surprise him with your new image and communication. If everything is done correctly, he will be interested in such changes and their reasons.
Step 4
Say that you have changed a lot, but your feelings have remained the same and you can give him much more than before. Say that you won't be able to start over and that the relationship is no longer built from scratch, but it's worth a try. Next, say that you value him very much and remember more good than bad. Give the man time to think and make an appointment in a couple of weeks. By this time, his decision will surely mature.
