Ideally, marriage is made for great love. But, unfortunately, in life there are cases and circumstances in which marriage can exist without love. What are the reasons for this?
Instructions
Step 1
Love is not eternal and, unfortunately, it passes. If you originally married a person for whom you had strong feelings, then over time, love can fade. But respect and the habit of living with this person remains, so many people, when love passes, stay with this person, whom they know well, know his merits and demerits.
Step 2
Love is not required for a strong marriage. “Paradise in a hut” - of course, there is some truth in this statement, but everyone wants to live in comfortable conditions and be protected. Many people marry based not only on love, they need certain guarantees of stability and security.
Step 3
Another factor is the presence of children from previous marriages. In order for the children to feel good and comfortable entering into a new relationship, the parent chooses a partner who will meet certain criteria and will be a good substitute for a father or mother. Often, women and men who marry under these circumstances are not based on romantic feelings.
Step 4
There are people who are a little constrained in their feelings, they cannot speak openly about them. Such people make a choice in favor of a partner in whom they find many important positive qualities, choosing with reason, not feelings. Next to such a partner it is calm, comfortable, the lifestyle is the same.
Step 5
Many girls are almost the first to marry them, because they are afraid of the status of an old maid.
Step 6
Another destructive reason for such a loveless marriage is in revenge on the ex or ex. People can remarry with another person whom they do not like, only in order to take revenge on their former chosen one or chosen one.
Step 7
Some suffer from the ideal child complex, which is expressed in the desire to meet the wishes of the parents. The opinion of their parents is important for them, therefore, if the parents approve of the choice, then sometimes people marry without even thinking that this person may be unloved.
