Many people dream of a strong friendly family, where everyone loves and appreciates each other. However, sometimes the opposite is true. So what destroys a marriage?
Instructions
Step 1
Routine and boredom. This is the main enemy of any family. If the same thing happens every day, there are no new impressions, and in this state of affairs you want to change something, find new emotions, then this is a serious reason to think. Since boredom and routine ruin many families.
Step 2
Manipulation. No one likes it when his life is trying to control and manipulate him with the help of forbidden techniques. Manipulation techniques can include feelings of guilt, fear, or sex drive.
Step 3
Communication. Lack of communication always leads to alienation. There may be several reasons: lack of desire to communicate, busyness, fatigue at work. Regardless of the reasons, the result is the same - people become strangers.
Step 4
Selfishness. If you live with a family, you must be willing to yield to the common interests of the family. Therefore, sometimes your emotions and desires will have to be relegated to the background.
Step 5
Conflicts. Conflict situations in the family are almost inevitable. You always need to find a compromise, to hear the position of the interlocutor.
Step 6
Criticism. Nagging, offensive statements, comparison with more successful people. All this makes you close in yourself.
Step 7
Jealousy. This feeling causes suspicion, mistrust, tight control. Jealousy does not lead to anything good, the relationship only deteriorates.
Step 8
Resentment. Throwing hurtful expressions in a fit of emotions, spouses leave deep wounds in each other's hearts. It is very difficult to love a person who screams and insults all the time.
Step 9
Betrayal, lies and insincerity. It drives people apart from each other. Trust in a relationship is key. If there is no trust, then there will be no normal relationship.
Step 10
Contempt. As soon as respect dies, love dies. There is no good family and good relationships where there is no mutual respect.
