Sometimes, after parting with a person, you can realize that he was exactly the one with whom you are ready to spend the rest of your life. If you are sure of this, you can try to get your ex-man back.
How to get your ex interested in the right way?
Such a gamble requires great care and delicacy. The return of the ex-man is a bit like taming a wild cat. Any mistake will throw you many steps back and have to start all over again.
Start communicating with him as with an ordinary acquaintance, after a while, move on to friendship. All this will take time and effort. It is necessary to restrain yourself in such situations so as not to throw yourself on a man's neck after the first warm words. This can only lead to banal "friendly sex" and your relationship will stall for this.
You must behave smoothly and predictably, restrain yourself. Be kind and caring without strong “peak” emotions. Analyze your relationship, understand the mistakes. Do not show any of the emotions that caused the breakup. In no case do not quarrel, do not show negativity and resentment.
Try to use something pleasant for your ex - your perfume, which he likes, clothes of his favorite color … These things work as a kind of anchors that can awaken the old feelings in a man.
Try to make your ex feel as comfortable as possible in your presence. Watch your facial expression, appearance - you should be calm, friendly and confident. Never flirt with your ex-man.
Never discuss negativity in your ex
Under no circumstances should you discuss with him what went wrong in your past relationship. Even if he himself tries to talk about it. Change the topic of the conversation. If the need arises, tell the man that all this negativity is in the past, and you would not want to experience it again. Just say it delicately and softly. You cannot show that this topic is of great concern to you.
When you make friends with your ex again, start going back in time, bring up the most pleasant memories in your conversations. They should be romantic, erotic and sexy, leave for later. Think of the places you've had your best dates, talk about it, and then watch his reaction. If your ex-boyfriend does not show any positive emotions, then you need to wait some more time. If there is a response, keep up the good work, just do not think about such romantic places or events too often. Once for several meetings is the ideal frequency.
At this stage, do not be afraid to invite him to “friendly” meetings first. Do not wait for him to call you, do not follow the usual scenario.
If your ex, after all the actions done, wants to drag him into bed, do not succumb to the provocation. Especially if he has a difficult relationship with the current girlfriend. If romantic feelings have not yet awakened in him to the full, sex at this stage will also go to the "friendly" section, which means it will lead you to a dead end.
Refuse hugs, kisses and caresses gently and confidently, the man should have the feeling that the matter is solely in the moral aspect. When your relationship is fully restored, a romantic interest will appear on the part of the man, he will call you on a date, then you can go to bed.
