At some point, you come to the idea that you will have to break up with your boyfriend. The most common reason for such a decision is that love is gone and now you have already begun to laugh at him in the company of your friends, everything in him has become annoying, you become bored and uninteresting with him. Of course, honestly telling him about this will be the most correct decision, but how to do it in such a way as to part with friends, because he did not do any nasty things to you and a lot of good things bind you.
Instructions
Step 1
If you have thought it over and made a firm final decision, then do not wait for a new boyfriend to appear in order to facilitate the separation, break off the relationship without waiting for this, and do not cause unnecessary insults.
Step 2
You shouldn't let him know about your decision in an email or use a friend as an intermediary, there is something cowardly and dishonest about this. Of course, if you are far from each other and will not see each other soon, then a letter is the only way out.
Step 3
Don't let your girlfriends be actively involved in your relationship. They can, of course, give you advice if you ask them about it, but make all decisions yourself and be fully responsible for them. Friends try on your situation, first of all, on themselves, therefore, they advise, as it were, for themselves.
Step 4
Warn him in advance that you need to talk seriously and choose a neutral place for this, with which you have no shared memories and in which you will not be disturbed. Think over each phrase and prepare yourself for the fact that this conversation is absolutely necessary, because it is better to cut off once than to part for a long time and painfully.
Step 5
Do not tell him that hackneyed phrase "Let's stay friends", in such a situation it may sound somewhat humiliating to him. Most likely, he will be upset and resentful, so it will take him time to come to his senses and overcome his resentment.
Step 6
Do not come up with non-existent reasons for breaking up, your lies can be easily revealed. Suffice it to say that you have changed, that you have new interests that turned out to be much more important than your relationship. Take the blame for breaking up and thank him for those minutes when you were good together.
Step 7
Well, the difficult conversation is over, the relationship that weighed so much on you is severed. Be sad, cry if you like, and start a new life. Your ex-boyfriend will eventually appreciate your honesty, and you and him will most likely remain friends, because you tried not to offend him and spare his pride.
