If you look around, you can see a lot of single women. And they are all different. From those who have turned into the most ordinary aunts, to those who are completely immersed in ensuring their external attractiveness. Among them there are both successful women who have taken place in their careers, and barely making ends meet. However, they have one thing in common - loneliness, lack of stable relationships and love. What do men say about such women? And why don't they strive to build relationships with them?
1. They do not like life, they do not know how to enjoy even small pleasant events. Their dominant mood is painted in faded, gray tones. They radiate sadness and sadness, they make you sad. From them you often hear complaints, grievances, discontent. They always have "everything is bad" or "nothing". And almost never happens "excellent", "great", "cool", "cool". They are not able to admire something, to be surprised at something, to admire something. They don't know how to enjoy life. They are unhappy with everything and everyone. They are also unhappy with everyone around them. From them you can rarely hear approving statements in someone's address. But criticism, vilification, ridicule of others, they exude with interest.
2. Being eternally unhappy with everything, they take offense at all sorts of little things and in relationships. He did not congratulate on the holiday, did not look at the girl passing by in the wrong way, asked for something in the wrong tone, etc. They always put emphasis on negative events in a relationship, while not attaching any significance, and, at times, devaluing pleasant ones. Hence they have a lot of suspicion, mistrust in men, unfounded jealousy and claims.
3. They don't love themselves. They constantly delve into themselves, criticize themselves, look for shortcomings in themselves, considering, at times, unworthy to be loved. They love to be in the form of an unhappy and pitiful woman, beaten by life's injustice. Fully focused on their problems, they do not pay attention to those that a man shares with them, do not give him support and understanding, empathy.
4. They are demanding of a man beyond measure. They take the position "he is obliged only because they are men." At the same time, they themselves do not consider it necessary to give something in return. Many of them reason in the context of "I give him my beauty, youth, sex …".
5. They are boring, they have nothing to talk about, except how to discuss problems at work, in the family, ex-men, girlfriends, neighbors, etc. They are not able to be a source of new, interesting, exciting, cognitive. They do not develop on their own and do not serve as a source of development for a man. You will never get worthwhile advice from them on any issue, because they are guided exclusively by emotions, and mostly negatively colored.
6. They do not show initiative in a relationship without being in the waiting mode for her from a man. They do not give a man the opportunity to feel needed, desired, interesting. On the contrary, they create the feeling that they are not interested in a relationship with him. It seems like they don't need a man. And if the initiative comes from them, then, most often, in the form of reproaches “Why don't you call me? You constantly do not have time for me ….
7. They are overly independent, they can do everything themselves. They do not give a man the opportunity to take care of them, to help in some matters. Sometimes this is accompanied by the feminine position "men are not able to do it better than women." And even if they accept help from a man, then their problems and difficulties are an endless stream, which a man despairs to cope with, because … (see p. 1).
8. They are constantly busy with something, there is no time for a man. Work, children, household chores, hobbies, girlfriends … A man has the feeling that they are superfluous in her life, there is no place for him in her busy schedule. Communication with him occurs according to the residual principle.
Of course, not all, but almost every single woman has certain qualities. And if you found them in yourself, then maybe you have something to think about?
