What to do if a conflict child is growing up in your family? How to determine how to behave with a conflict child, what are the reasons for the child's conflict behavior? Let's try to answer these questions.
There may be several main reasons for the child's conflicting behavior. It is possible that this behavior is due to the child's selfishness. If in the family he is constantly in the spotlight, then it is quite obvious that all his desires are fulfilled.
He expects the same attitude towards himself from the peers around him. But without receiving this, he goes to conflicts in order to satisfy his desires. On the other hand, a child may be in conflict due to the fact that he does not receive the attention of parents or becomes an unwitting witness to family squabbles.
But whatever the reason, you need to respond to the manifestation of conflicts and be ready to change the behavior of your child.
How should you behave in relation to a conflict child? It is necessary to restrain his tendencies to provoke quarrels, pay attention to his unfriendly views towards someone and to his muttering with resentment. You should also learn not to stop the quarrel by blaming the other child, but, on the contrary, try to understand the conflict and its causes.
After a quarrel, discuss with the child the possible reasons for its occurrence, identify the wrong actions of your child and try to find and discuss other ways to get out of conflicts, but do not tell the child that the whole problem is in him, as he will understand that conflicts are inevitable.
